what God is to me

what is God to me?ill simply say everything!!
As humans we all want and need something to believe in,there's a philosophy of life,scientists have their theories and Christians have theirs.every event that happens in life has its own significance to people with difference beliefs,pagans believe in things like luck,destiny or karma,others believe u make your own destiny..d list goes on.
As a realist i like the thought of believing in a superior being taking control of my life,someone who knows me inside out before my birth,someone who knows what im in the world for..generally i like the idea of someone that is better than humans pulling the strings form above and someone taking care of me and my endeavors and if it happens that that person is also someone who never disappoints,is a shoulder to cry on,someone who never judges,most importantly someone is forgiving,time and time again then that makes the decision even better and ill rather believe that than believe in luck  and karma.
As a christian myself tho  apart from everything God denotes to be to us,he is our father and Friend and we are his most prized creation regarded above angel,regardless of how flawed we are (humans are really flawed extremely so-im not an alien).God is someone who sent his son to die for the sins of people who din't believe in him or appreciate him.,but before even sending his son he gave us a chance to know him and respect him by making his sons live an exceptional and exemplary life,he is someone who despite being angry and disappointed gives us chances time and time again,my God is a God of miracles,signs and wonders,a God that protects,provides,that loves unconditionally.unlike us humans
Yes i keep on talking about how flawed humans are because i know how far i am from a perfection that God and Jesus and frankly Christianity to me is God giving us a chance to be almost as perfect as him,a chance to be thankful and grateful,a chance to be loved and to feel safe and protected.that basically is Christianity to me but obviously there's more involved seeing as im not a preacher

Nigerian music videos

        I wish...oh i so wish that Nigerian artists will sing about more worthwhile things than songs about shaking asses and sleeping with women..or run-zing them,i mean it goes to show that guy think and talk about girls more than girls do for guys(if u ask a guy they would always deny and say they talk about football and MANY other topics..yh rite)it  sad and pathetic tho and in ma opinion is a sign that they don't love what they do ..as a musician or artist,your love for your profession should show but most of our artists sing so as to get the fame and money alone,yes the money is important (if not the main goal) but there's such a thing called proper allocation of talents(there`s no such thing i just invented this now)let a lot of thought be put into your lyrics not just d same words repeated over and over like (davidos dami duro and wizkids on top your matter(liked that one tho)it shouldn't but all about women..(someone like flavour,u can just tell he like women,big women but it get ttiring hearing about "ukwu sarambara" nd how he loves it)why don`t they write about life,past experiences.,issues people face nowadays(okay mite be boring but they can make it work) 

        Now for the video ish i`ve always wondered why there cant there be more to a video than girls half naked shaking their bums.i can tell you only guys would want to watch that and actually enjoy it.

i feel that a lot of thought should go into your video to make it unforgettable and stick..beyonce always has a kind of theme..(if i were a boy the video actually goes wit the song,a lot her songs just do)okay using Nigerian videos banky`s yes no,stupid song by....(um okay dunno his name but they are nice concepts..even tony Montana the remix naeto c and dbanj was a nice concept and eminado by tiwa savage was okay also.

         When and if you are making  a video please make it for all your viewers and not only guys.there i`snt enough romance in Nigeria as it is..we need more..more R&B more dare art alade,more timi dakolo,more jeremiah...take for instance how many Nigerian songs can be played in backgrounds of cozy restaurants or relaxed atmospheres and esp on vals day...um none...cuz even the few R&b artist are not popular enough to shine out and its all OUR fault for not accepting them the way we do for pop.i pray for a Nigeria that accept EVERY genre of music not just one.

my dog is dumb!!

okay so one of our dogs,jaguar,a South African bumasteve(cross breed of bull dog and a rottweiler) went on a one month training,to improve his alertness,help him potty train and the rest and came back it seems dummer dan b4..our "jaguar come here" has become his "go run for your life" and he runs away wen he sees my parents.i mean what is up wit that)now there  are whispers about selling him and i cant help but be sad at the thought...jaguar is d first dog that i ever liked and let alone loved,i mean he helped get me out of  dog phobia and i feel like if they sell him it would be like selling a family member and its sooo unfair...i hope he becomes less dumb cuz our other rottweilers (Royce and Rover) are overshadowing him now he seems to be big for nothing...

getting to knoe me!!

As everyone knows i am a total big mouth always yapping all daie about some ish or the other nd  tot ,why not express myself on a blog,(believe me ,im running out out people whu listen to me)so this is my introduction.
i'm Stephanie or Dumebi as am commonly known as.still a student till mid 2014  at least and planing on having the best last sem eva!!!(tho i dont ave a social bone in my body)..i mean  graduating uni is like goin from a life of freedom to a sad nd repetitive life...work and family .
To describe myself...well.. im annoying atimes,secretive and independent and nice and polite...even mre dan i xpect of my self...esp cause im impatient.this is just a tip of the ice berg tho(describing myself would take a much longer  page) and i hope to read all your comments  in my subsequent postings.
ciao ....